![Father John Dakes, pastor of Jesus the Divine Word Church in Huntingtown, Maryland, places ashes on a child's forehead during Ash Wednesday Mass on February 22, 2023.](https://thegoodnewsroom.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/20230222T1450-ASH-WEDNESDAY-MARYLAND-CHURCH-1756575-1-1024x683.jpg)
Grace and peace – from him who is and who was and who is to come.
We have long understood that baptized individuals who have reached the age of reason, and catechumens may receive ashes. Babies and young children who have not yet made their first confession need not be presented to receive ashes which are intended for those who are capable of personal sin.
However, we have all encountered parents who often bring up small children, from babies in arms to toddlers, to five-year-olds, and want them to receive ashes. Is it appropriate, given that the children might have no understanding of what is involved?
The rules regarding the imposition of ashes do not seem to put any particular limitation as to who may receive them. Although it is clear that young children have no need to repent nor to do penance, there is no reason to refuse to impose ashes if their parents present them. It can serve as a means of forming them in Catholic traditions just as they will teach them to make the sign of the cross and will bring them to Mass several years before their first Holy Communion.
Numerous irregularly practicing Catholics request the imposition of ashes. There is no good reason to refuse anyone, and indeed, this gesture might light a spark of repentance. The best practice: is simply to trust the good faith of those requesting the imposition of ashes and not worry about their motivation.
With sentiments of joy and hope, may the New Year bring good health, peace, and happiness.