(OSV News) — Fernando Mendoza often talks about the importance of setting his priorities straight.

On the biggest night of his football life, he proved it.

Mendoza, a committed Catholic, the 2026 Heisman Trophy winner, and the quarterback who led Indiana University to its first NCAA Division I national championship, became the No. 1 overall pick in the NFL draft on April 23, selected by the Las Vegas Raiders.

But while the football world gathered in the draft’s host city of Pittsburgh, Mendoza chose not to attend. Instead, he remained home in Miami, surrounded by family and close to the person who has shaped him most: his mother.

After NFL Commissioner Roger Goodell announced the pick, Mendoza was unavailable for interviews. That absence spoke for itself.

Gratitude over the glamour of Pittsburgh

“I wanted to stay and make the memory with everybody who poured into my football journey,” Mendoza said on “The Rich Eisen Show” on April 20. “Mentors, coaches, family, friends. Being able to share that memory with all of them is going to be the best memory that I can make, rather than limit it to 10 or 12 people in Pittsburgh.”

For Mendoza, this was not simply a career milestone. It was a moment of gratitude and presence.

At the center of that decision was his mother, Elsa, who has long battled multiple sclerosis, an autoimmune disease that affects the central nervous system and has confined her to a wheelchair. The physical strain and logistics of travel made the choice practical.

“It’s a lot easier for us with the family situation,” he said.

But the reasoning goes deeper.

“I see her fighting every single day, and with a smile on her face,” Mendoza told Eisen. “So there’s no excuse for me to have a bad day, bad play or bad game. I’m always trying to have an optimistic approach, give the best and serve the best to my teammates.”

That perspective, shaped not by highlight reels but by daily witness, forms the foundation of his life. It is inseparable from his Catholic faith, which he practices openly and consistently.

‘This moment is bigger than me’

Among the on-field vignettes that define Mendoza, back on January 19 at Hard Rock Stadium in Miami Gardens, Mendoza delivered one of the defining moments in recent college football history. Facing fourth-and-four at the 12-yard line in the national championship game, he ran into a wall of defenders, absorbed multiple hits, and dragged himself across the goal line for a touchdown that helped secure a 27–21 victory and cap a perfect 16-0 season.

Moments later, amid the celebration, he redirected the spotlight.

“This moment is bigger than me,” he said. “First, I want to thank God.”

It was not a one-time sentiment.

At the Heisman Trophy ceremony on December 13 in New York City, Mendoza again placed faith at the forefront.

“First, I want to thank God for giving me the opportunity to chase a dream that once felt a world away,” he said, his voice breaking.

Then he turned to his mother.

“Mami, this is your trophy as much as it is mine,” he said. “You’ve always been my biggest fan. You’re my light. You’re my ‘Why.’ You’re my biggest supporter. Your sacrifice, courage, love, those have been my first playbook, and the playbook that I’m gonna carry through my entire life.

“You taught me that toughness doesn’t need to be loud. It can be quiet and strong. It’s choosing hope. It’s believing in yourself when the world doesn’t give you much reason to.”

From two-star recruit to No. 1 pick

Those words reflect a path shaped by patience and resilience. Mendoza was a two-star recruit out of Christopher Columbus High School in Miami, a Catholic school run by the Marist Brothers.

After beginning his college career at the University of California, Berkeley, Mendoza transferred to Indiana, where he became the centerpiece of a remarkable turnaround. Just two years removed from a 3–9 season, the Hoosiers surged to a national championship with Mendoza leading the way.

His arrival in the NFL carries similar expectations. The Raiders have struggled for stability at quarterback. Mendoza steps into that uncertainty as a potential cornerstone, a player expected to restore direction to a franchise searching for it.

Yet for all the pressure that comes with being the top pick, Mendoza’s identity remains unchanged.

Those close to him describe a steady, lived faith. He reportedly prays the rosary every Friday, listens to Mass before games, and avoids hype music to maintain focus. He attends Mass regularly and embraces the sacraments not as routine, but as grounding.

Dominican Father Patrick Hyde, pastor of St. Paul Catholic Center at Indiana University, has seen that consistency firsthand.

‘He shows up out of love for God, not human praise’

“Fernando backs up his talk on TV by giving glory to God at Sunday Mass,” Father Hyde wrote on X. “He shows up out of love for God, not human praise.”

On Christmas Eve, Mendoza brought his Heisman Trophy to St. Paul Catholic Center, not for display, but as an act of gratitude.

Weeks later, after the national championship, he stood on the field again, confetti falling, history secured, and embraced his mother. Both were in tears.

“I want to give all the glory and thanks to God,” he said.

In an era defined by spectacle and self-promotion, Mendoza’s draft-night choice stood in quiet contrast.

No stage. No spotlight.

Just home.